^ Everyday I shout

So this is quite common in a house with toddler. The minute I saw something not right, the most fastest reaction would be yell before something bad happen in next minute. I recall what a Pastor said in a talk show, a woman who not soft spoken (yeah, think he was referring to woman who talk loud and yell too) doesn't feminine or lady like. Well, I guess most SAHM are hard to train to be soft spoken at home.

How can you still be soft spoken when you busy at kitchen and saw the brat climbing up and down the tv stands? Thats what mine did, he will go up and sit on it. Luckily the TV stand is kind of low one..but everyday I will still shout "come down", "go far away", "sit there" those words.